Curiosity Killed The Cat!
Dazed is back , Confused as ever but back to the city never the less :)
Disclaimer: The following post is twisted and contains some potentially damaging material and is only intended for my equally twisted minded readers. Continue with caution !!!!
You’re our own little Carrie a friend once told me. With all your men, questions and love for shoes and fashion.
Ironically, I’m writing this while watching the queen herself in action.
Just like her, I do have questions, quite a bit of them actually. I’m a very curious person, curious about everything, especially things that have to do with relationships and matters of the heart. Unfortunately, this curiosity gets the best of me!!!
Curiosity killed the cat after all! (Where did this phrase come from???)
Is it just me, or do u find females far more curious than males are????
Think about it, Adam was pretty content with his life on heaven and wasn’t planning on meddling around into forbidden grounds. On the other hand, Eve and her curious nature wanted to venture into the unknown and taste the “forbidden apple”.
As a daughter of Eve, my mind keeps venturing into strange places and I find myself having the strangest debates and conversations with people. The latest would be about monogamy and polygamy. I found myself asking the females around me the following question:
“If women were allowed to marry more than one man would u be a polygamist?”
I’m a person that doesn’t tolerate polygamist men and I’m not ok with the idea of a man marrying more than one lady, even if he had a valid reason. (for my non Muslim reader , look the reasons up or just ask me).
If god forbid, my future husband does it to me I would most likely just divorce his ass, kids or no kids and I sure as hell would never consider marrying a married man if my life depended on it!!!
But why is it that when the tables were turned, I pictured myself actually doing it ?!!!
Is it because us females think that most men are a bunch of dips shits that need to be treated as shit cus that’s what they are after all or am I just full of shit and would never actually do it??
Are we females just hypocrites that condemn men for their choices just because we don’t have the same options?
Honestly, the idea does seem tempting to me. I would marry a funny guy that makes me laugh all the time, a kind guy that treats me like the goddess that I actually am, a rich guy to make sure that I live a good life, a smart guy and a super hot one. Tall , short, dark and fair, I’ll get me one of each ….. Yummy Yummy!!!
Hypothetically, if I did have more than one husband, who would then be responsible for taking care of my children if I had any. Do they all stay with me and the dads come and visit them or do they stay with the dads and I just go and visit?
Who will be responsible for paying the household bills?
Can I handle more than one man, considering that men’s sex drives far outweigh that of women, how over sexed will I be???????
Finally, Do polygamists ever have threesomes??? (This one in particular I’m really curious about?? )
Now that u guys know how my twisted mind works, I’m curious to know what you guys (males and females) think??
The following questions are for my female readers?
1- Would u marry more than one man if u had the choice?
2- If Yes, why and if No , why not ?
3- If u fell in love with someone else while u were married would u divorce ur current
hubby and marry the second dude or would u keep both?
4- would u come clean and confess to ur current hubby if you married someone else?
The following questions are for my male readers?
1- If your wife married someone else while she was still married to you would you
stay with her or divorce her? (apply this scenario if u had kids or didn’t )
2- Would you consider marrying a married woman and being the 2nd, 3rd or 4th
husband?
3- If Yes, why and in No, why not?
4- Would u be the provider of the house and to your wife if you weren’t the only `
husband?
( refer to the comment section for my answers )
I TOLD YOU GUYS THIS POST IS TWISTED !!!
P.S “Curiosity killed the cat” – I looked it up and got the following:
The saying originally was “care kills a cat,” and began in the 16th century. “Care” was a warning that worry is bad for your health and can lead to an early grave; the phrase was a recognition that cats seem to be very cautious and careful. Over time, the word “care” evolved into “curiosity.”
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14 Comments:
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1- If your wife married someone else while she was still married to you would you
stay with her or divorce her?
I WOULD DIVORCE HER!
2- Would you consider marrying a married woman and being the 2nd, 3rd or 4th husband?
I WOULDN"T CONSIDER MARRYING MORE THAN ONE WOMAN..LET ALONE MARRYING ANOTHER MARRIED WOMAN
3- If Yes, why and in No, why not?
I THINK IF THINGS ARE NOT GOING WELL IN A MARRIAGE THEN THE MARRIAGE SHOULD BE DISOLVED AND EACH GO THEIR SEPARATE WAYS!
4- Would u be the provider of the house and to your wife if you weren’t the only husband? NOT APPLICABLE!
You asked for this. So here are my over-extended answers. I apologize for the long reply, but I really enjoyed writing it. Hope you'll enjoy reading it too.
Questions for the female readers:
1- Would u marry more than one man if u had the choice?
Are you kidding me? Of course!
2- If Yes, why and if No , why not?
i. Women are gifted with the ability to multi-task. If a woman is capable to juggle between a home, career, pets, husband, children AND errands, what would make it so hard just to add another husband into the bouquet?
ii. Bluntly speaking, no marriage is really, truly monogamous. Monogamy is boring and faithfulness is merely lack of imagination. So if some physically faithful people would feel content with fantasy, some others would actually experiment.
iii. Sex is all in your head. However you prefer to implement your sexuality, it’s all in your head. Would you prefer missionary? Doggy? Bisexual? Threesomes? Orgies? 3urfi? Mut3ah? It all starts in your head. So the more open-minded you are is probably the more perverse your sexual behavior becomes.
3- If u fell in love with someone else while u were married would u divorce your current hubby and marry the second dude or would u keep both?
Why should I leave one out? Let’s all just be a big happy family!
4- Would u come clean and confess to your current hubby if you married someone else?
Duh! If a man ever received the honor to be my husband, then he’s gotta be one helluva quirky dude himself to dare wanting to marry me. :)
And since I’m bisexual, I hope you don’t mind me answering the men’s questions too.
1- If your wife married someone else while she was still married to you would you stay with her or divorce her?
Only if she’d told me about it from the beginning. The kids will understand and get used to it; we've seen living arrangements weirder than open marriages, and kids have a way through everything.
But it’s preferable that I like the guy she’s marrying. I might wanna have a nookie with him too.
2- Would you consider marrying a married woman and being the 2nd, 3rd or 4th husband?
Depends, did she kill number 1, 2, 3 or 4? In not, then the answer is: Yes.
3- If Yes, why and in No, why not?
If she’s been married so many times, then she must be one helluvan attractive woman.
And to be considered appealing by so many men, she must have quite a set of criteria that would make her comparable with Shiraz Wine: The older she is, the better she becomes.
4-Would u be the provider of the house and to your wife if you weren’t the only husband?
If all of us are insane enough to choose this extremely-un-traditional lifestyle, then issues about gender equality would be way behind us.
Besides, my untraditional wife would feel too cool to recieve provisions from her husbands. She's smart enough to make her own living.
Aren't you?
i like the tiwsted post
its so you!
anyways
you cant have threesomes its forbidden by religion even if you are married
1- yes i would
2- why? cz i like having variety :)
3-depends if i like my first hubby, if ide do ide keep him, if not ide divorce, but you know wat they say, the more the merrier
4-yes
that being said if my husband ever even THINKS of marrying someone else ide chop his penis off then divorce him
heres another saying for you
" curiosity killed the cat, and satisfaction brought her back "
Wow, good topic, and you seem to have touched a nerve there. I don't want to go into copious amounts of detail but lets just say that this time last year the man I love announced that he was engaged to someone else.
I don't need to mention the months that followed, but as you might well know, people in love do crazy things and consider things they'd never do before.
For the cost of being with him, I would accept being a second wife, or even a third or a fourth. I've never hated the other woman, but my love for him outweighs that.
As time passed the story became more intricate than a spanish telenovela, I still love him, but I've met other people I also love.
And I must agree with you, love can't be just a black and white thing, why should one love just one person?
I think it's perfectly possible to love lots of people at the same time. I don't know about equally, love can't be measured, but I think you'd love people differently. As you say, you'd love one man because he's a sexy beast, and another because he makes you laugh. You don't necessarily love one more than the other, but you do love them differently, for different reasons.
Also, I completely agree with what hning says. All of it. Including the female part. I'm bisexual as well, so aye, the more open-minded and inconventional, the better.
Apologies for hugeass comment, and good to have you blogging again.
This has all made me feel very conservative.
1. I would kill her and the husband. No kidding. It would only be fair. And I assume the person I marry would respond in the same manner.
2. Obviously not simultaneously. If she has been married before, then it would depend on a number of things.
3. I can like two people, but cannot be in love properly with two people simultaneously. I am not built that way. I have put a lot of work into discovering this. I suspect anyone who says differently has never been in love.
4. Provider of the house? Wouldn't she get bored staying at home minding the kids? Yawn. Up to her , I suppose.
Interesting post :D
To answer your questions:
1. No, i wouldn't.
2. Because i don't think i'd be able to handle all that drama. Also, i wouldn't want to subject my husband to something i wouldn't want done to me.
3. Hmm, i'd stay with whomever i loved more.
4. IF i ever married someone else, i wouldn't have to confess, he'd figure it out. I'm terrible at lying and i'd probably be unhappy living with the burden of a double life anyway.
I'm busy enough exploring love and lust with my ONE husband! We experiment enough sexually that I don't feel the urge to stray, and we provide for each other financially, emotionally, intellectually enough that I don't need someone else. Sexually, I suppose it would be exciting to have other partners, but since I wouldn't love them I may as well just be a swinger and not marry them! ;)
hey guys ,
AWP,
ur one of the good guys :)
Hning,
welcome to my blog, is it actually u in the pics u posted on ur blog?
Wild is an understatement to what u sound like !!!!!
i disagree with ur point that monogamy and faithfulness is merely lack of imagination.
sleeping with more than one person is just u doing something in reality so it's more of experimentation than imagination. people with real imaginations are the ones who find new ways to explore each other and reinvent themselves :)
i wanna also clarify why i asked my last question that i addressed to my male reader. i asked this question because the typical male usually insists on being the provider of th house even if his wife makes more money, i guess it's just an ego thing. so i wanted to c if an open minded risk taking male that would agree to this scenario would still hang on to his male provider status.
personally, i find it very difficult to take money from my dad so their is no way I'm gonna have a man provide for me. just wanted to clarify :)
eshda3wa,
twisted is so me :|
and i know it's forbidden but i was curious to know if people actually do it .
more isn't always necessarily merrier wouldn't u say :)
Pan,
sorry i hit a nerve, screw the shitface hope u feel better :)
i agree that love does make us do crazy things but not crazy enough to compromise who we are. (sorry for the equally long response)
ideally, love it suppose to make us happy, better people but if we can't love who we are when we are in love what's the point. ( too philosophical i know :P )
maybe it just me, but i have to love a person because he makes me love who i am and love him for who he is , if we loose sense of who we are and what we stand for what's the point?!
so, yes i would do crazy things but not crazy enough to the point where i compromise who i am for anyone, but that's just me.
agnon,
i actually do find u quite conservative my child just like i raised u to be ;P
1. u sound like a typical arab man are u sure ur not :P
2. like ??
3. i agree with u , but people don't always marry for love do they !?
4. she wouldn't be @ home just minding the kids , she has more than one family remember , how boring can that be !!
imagine 4 guys providing for one gal $$$$$
geek in pink,
welcome to my blog and well said :)
Teacherlady ,
Now this is a gal with imagination , please talk to hning and give her some pointers and feel free to educate me as well ;)
No it's my turn to answer the question.
as intriguing and exiting as it sounds,it's just not for me .
for several reasons.
1- i'm not a romantic person in the traditional "candle night dinner, walk on the beach , cheesy love talk kinda a way but i would still like to believe that their is a person out there for everyone that loves them , only them and sees the world in their eyes ( that's as cheesy as i'm gonna get so milk it people :P)
we can love more than one person at a time but we can't be in love with more than one. ( that doesn't mn we can't be in love with more than one peroson that's just depressing , no i meant @ the same time)
2. treat others like u would wanna be treated and that is definitely not a behavior i would accept from others and nor should they.
3. It sounds exhausting and i'm a lazy person !!!
think about it , ur gonna have to look ur best and be top notch all the time cus the guys who c so little of u expect a lot when they do :|
4. how do i keep track of what kid is fathered by who !!! ( the idea of having to do a DNA test fo each kid sound sick to me)
plus , apparently u can be pregnant with more than one person's baby @ the same time , that even complicates things even furthers !!!!
in conclusion, I'm a one man if any kinda gal :)
You are still my Mom because you made me create an ID. I am little baby Agnon.
1. Nothing to do with being Arab. I suppose a couple of things to consider
1.1 Did she betray you because you suck and are an asshole? In which case she was probably devastated that she had to go elsewhere.
1.2 No, it is just too horrible to think about.
2. Whether it was due to a specific situation or due to her belief system, and whether I believed she was fully prepared to move on. And determining those things would depend on a lot of small details, which would be more apparent at the time.
Go Hning! Give it to 'em!
D&C: You did not just say this "a kind guy that treats me like the goddess that I actually am."
Please tell me you did not just say that.
i'll keep this short and sweet. one man is enough trouble and effort as it is let alone 4!! haha
arabiannight,
i hear ya :)
it's been a while where did u disappear off 2 ?
I had problems accessing blogspot -couldn't even access my own but its back now for some reason and I'm still reading. I await your next post with anticipation ;)
PS (i'm lousy with notes, but i read all).
dot,
i'm just stating facts :P
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